30 Days of Kink: My Kinks

September 2nd, 2010 rayne 2 comments

So this is totally a cop out, but at least I’m honest.  Being faced with no post at all on Monday, and the possibility of not getting another post done today, I gave in to the temptation known as “journal prompt”.  However! Imma try to expand a little on my kinks, rather than just listing them.

Cause I’m way cooler than Cinnamon.

Ahem.  What I meant to say, was… Ah fuck it

Day 2: List your kinks. Read more…

e[lust] #19

September 2nd, 2010 rayne No comments


Photo courtesy of Emmy

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #20? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

The Rules – She squirmed in her chair as if impaled there by my finger slowly pushing in and out. “But I can tell you that on our third date, I want something a lot bigger than your finger in me.”

Consensual Nonconsent - He told me he was going to do whatever he wanted to me, and he wanted me to not give consent. He wanted to take it from me. He wanted me to say no, and the less l liked something the harder it would make him.

Love and light – So I move on, not as a submissive, but as the smart mature strong woman that I know that I am.  I will credit him with changing me.  Changing the way I see myself.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Confessional: Annual Reminder – In the dark, in the car, in the parking lot of a somewhat posh store, he got a fantastic blowjob as uptight conservatives drove past us.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

What’s Been Eating Emmy - A yearly test is good for most, but if you find you are playing with a larger than usual number of people, go get retested.  Put yourself and your future partners mind at ease.

See also: Pleasurists #92 and #93 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy! Read more…

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Pleasurists #93

September 1st, 2010 rayne No comments


The Goddess Aphrodite by DarkAlchemyStudios

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Editor
Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

Editor’s Pick

  • njoy Fun Wand by Elodie
  • I already adored my new toy before I knew how the end with three bloops felt in my butt. When K used the Fun Wand in my rear (with plenty of lubricant), it was a revelation.

On to the reviews…  Read more…

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Different Views: M v. Me

September 1st, 2010 rayne No comments

Or better, depending on how you look at it! ~wink~

M and I are so completely different, in various areas of our beliefs, political views, the way we see the world and people in general, that it would almost be laughable if it weren’t so horribly tragic.

His view, I mean, is horribly tragic.  ~snicker~ Read more…

“I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed…”

September 1st, 2010 rayne No comments

This month has been a month of epiphanies.

I realized I kinda love myself, which is an awesome change from hating myself.  Read more…

30 Days of Kink: Dom, Sub, Switch?

August 31st, 2010 rayne No comments

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you.  Basically define your kinky self for us.

A year ago, I asked almost the exact same question (log in required) on FetLife in a group I mod called Don’t Define Me (Come on in and gab with us.  All are welcome.  There’s never been any drama.  And I’m running out of topics to start, so start some! Lol.).  Not being one to ask a question and not answer it if I have an answer, I responded: Read more…

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Finish Each Day…

August 31st, 2010 rayne No comments

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The Versatile Blogger Award

August 31st, 2010 rayne 3 comments

Here are the rules for this award:
1. Thank the person who gave you the award
2. Share seven things about you
3. Nominate 15 newly discovered blogs
4. Let your nominees know about the award

Okay, so I totally forgot about this award, cause I suck.  But it was given to me by Misfit Momma, and I’m totally appreciative, though I’m not sure what I did to deserve it.  But I guess “versatile” fits, since I blog about whatever comes to mind, and not just one topic.  So thanks!! :)   Read more…

An Eden Fantasys Reviewiversary Wiener!!

August 28th, 2010 rayne 1 comment

So to celebrate my one year anniversary, I asked Eden Fantasys to supply me with this super awesome flogger to give away.  And they gave me one to review, too!

Yesterday was the last day to enter, and we had a couple last minute entries.  And with all they reasons you guys want this flogger, I wish I had one to give to each of you.  Unfortunately, I’ve just got one.

And it goes to… DragonMage! Congratulations!! I hope luvbunny loves her roses! :)

Getting Fit – Week 5

August 26th, 2010 rayne No comments

The other day, M said there’s a ton of shit He does to maintain my mental health issues and/or keep me from getting upset with myself over them.  And it was a pretty solid wake-up call.  So I’m in the process of looking around for mind exercises that won’t bore me to death, or cost me anything to do.  If anyone has any suggestions, they would be much appreciated.

As much as I make fun of Cin for how much she organizes and re-organizes her days, and her computers, and everything else, I’ve been going crazy trying to keep this laptop organized.  However, unlike Cin, I started this Macbook out the way I want it, and I’m gonna keep it the way I want it, and I’m hoping that’ll do wonders for keeping me on task.  And also unlike Cin, I’m not gonna just suddenly decide I need to use different organization tactics, and reorganize the whole damn thing.  And finally, unlike Cin, I’m not gonna make redundant lists and spreadsheets all over the place.  (Don’t worry.  Cin knows I love her, and I’m mostly teasing.  Mostly.Read more…