Thirty Days of Kink
So, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I’m forty-one pages in, and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. I know, I know. Not even finished one series, and already starting another. Ah well. It’ll keep me from getting bored and increase the chances of me actually finishing them. At least I won’t run out of things to say for a while.
(Also… I’m trying to talk M into doing this, as well. If you’re interested in hearing His answers, do me a favor and sound off here. Maybe He’ll be more inclined to give it a shot if He knows it’ll be well received!)
Anywho… Thirty Days of Kink:
Day 2: List your kinks.
Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?
Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)
Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.
Check it out! Other people are doing it, too!
I’m a trendsetter! Hee!
Seriously, though, people are joining in the kinky fun. Here are some who defined their kinky selves for me. I know! It’s so cool that people are willing to write for me.
- Britni, from Fiending for Hope, defines her kinky self.
- TitsMcScandal defines her kinky self.
- Mistress Kay, from Kinky World, defines her kinky self.
- Our very own Dweaver defines his kinky self.
- 3, from FetLife, defines her kinky self.
- Rockin’, from Light Switch, defines her kinky self.
- Perverted Imp, from PervertedImp.com, defines her kinky self.
And here are some other folks who’re working on this writing project on their own site. Be sure to check them out. Feel free to add your own link via the widget below.
Hi I just started working on this here is the short link to the first post http://wp.me/pQ6md-2a
@Kathryn Added.
Thanks.
Also the wonderful Gabe & Elizabeth over at Pornocracy just started too!
http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=764
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@Scarlet Lotus Thanks for letting me know! I’ll get them added to the list.
Thanks for adding me to the list!!
I’m going to start it tomorrow
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Thanks for adding me!
Thank You for adding me.
I’ve been working on this series as well, and I would greatly appreciate being added to the list.
http://girldeviante.blogspot.com/
I just started this on my own blog, I loved the idea and decided to go for it myself!
http://rosesthornesco.blogspot.com/
@K Adding you to the list now.
@Rose For some reason you’re getting caught by Akismet as spam. I deleted your second comment. Adding you to the list now.
@Everyone – Thanks for participating!
@Rayne – How weird!
How did I miss this when it was originally posted, and then the subsequent postings? Obviously I am sorely behind in my blog reading. Anyway, thank goodness for the many avenues of communication that is the net, and that I saw your post on Fet, right?
I am working on a way to incorporate this into my blog as well. What a great meme!
Jade
Jade´s last [type] ..Creepy or Romantic-Sexy
Hey, GREAT list!! I just wanted to chime in that I’m joining in on the kinky fun too!! Started day 1 today in fact…
@Jade @Evey Y’all are up! Thanks for participating.
This project was just the thing to inspire me to explore my kink and write about it! Thanks!
http://switchbackgirl.blogspot.com/2011/01/30-days-of-kink.html
I’ve started this project also, it’s going to be an interesting and eventful 30 days of blogging. I’ve given credit where credit is due.
=^_~=
*faceplant*
Helps if I put a link eh? *blush*
http://www.kari-rose.com/2011/01/11/30-days-of-kink/
@Kari Rose Lol. It totally does. Thanks… adding you now.
@Janey Arson Awesome! I’m adding you to the list.
I appreciate you linking my blog, and I amended my first post for the Thirty Days of Kink I’ve been doing, to link back to you
Cheers,
Fay
@Faydreh Oh, hey, thanks! You didn’t have to do that. I really appreciate it.
I added all the days to a seperate page for easy viewing: http://redheaded-slut.blogspot.com/p/30-days-of-kink.html
Hi Rayne
I have finally got round to starting this project.
You can find my 1st post here http://mollysdailykiss.com/2011/03/15/define-your-kinky-self/
and I have also created a new page for this project with a link back to its creator….You! LOL
http://mollysdailykiss.com/the-30-days-of-kink/
Mollyxxx
Sounds interesting! Count me in as well! I’ll squeeze them in with my daily posts!! Cheers for this xx
Sephani Paige´s last [type] ..Bad Habits
I completed my Thirty Days of Kink posts ^_^
I started it a few days ago. On Day 6 now.
I’m doing the 30 Days in my own blog. I just finished Day 3. ^_^
@ Samantha
oh.. i forgot to put the link! lol
http://sleepykitten1981.blogspot.com/2011/04/30-days-of-kink-list-nsfw-ish.html
Starting my own 30 Days of Kink today!
princessstarberry.dreamwidth.org
Great read. I’m doing the 30 days thing too on a similar blog.
I love this. I’ve been waiting to contribute. I have mine over at my blog
http://www.mundanetoms.blogspot.com
Check it out!
Im a little late but I’m starting this too http://complaisantone.wordpress.com/30-days-of-kink/ !
What a great series!
Hey, I started mine way back in March, but sort of it let it drift. http://citygalatea.wordpress.com/category/30-days-of-kink/
@Sestra, @Rain, @Mistress L, @Emma Rose, @Starberry, @Samantha, @Joy, @Faydreh, @Sephani Paige, @ Molly, @The Redheaded Slut I’ll get you guys added to the list just as soon as I have a free moment, if you’re not already.
Thanks Rayne, much appreciated. I’m having a blast doing it!
Nice, didn’t know you had your own site and the eden blog til just now. You must be a very busy woman. Lol
If it pleases you to do so, would you please add me to your list?
I’ve done about 5 and I’m trying to push myself to write more. Thanks for this awesomesauce list Rayne!! 
I’m playing along!
http://www.sugarcuntwrites.com/2011/07/switch-y-sugarcunt-her-slutling-30dok/
http://theredheadedslut.blogspot.com/p/30-days-of-kink.html
The site moved!
Hi! I don’t know if this is still being updated, but i wanted to mention that i’m also completing the challenge. (: Already up to day 7!
http://dulcib.blogspot.com/2011/08/30-days-of-kink.html
Just wanted to post my 20 Days of Kink blog posting link. Thanks for the idea!
I just started working on this yesterday: http://absinthecocktail.blogspot.com
Thank you for putting this together–it’s really helping me get back into blogging after taking a break!
Hi, I just started this yesterday.
I’d been looking for a nice self-assignment; this one is in nice bite-sized pieces, so thank you!
Almost finished this! http://deviantdildos.com/dirty-things/30-days-of-kink/