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Thirty Days of Kink

There’s been a change: I won’t be writing this in sequential order after all.  What? I tried! But I had an awesome idea! I’m sharing this series with Eden Cafe.  I’ll link to them all here, and of course they’ll be listed in my monthly round up.  So keep your eyes peeled!

Just because I can’t have a Tumblr doesn’t mean I can’t look at Tumblr.  I don’t think.  He didn’t say it did, anyway.

So, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I’m forty-one pages in, and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink.  I know, I know.  Not even finished one series, and already starting another.  Ah well.  It’ll keep me from getting bored and increase the chances of me actually finishing them.  At least I won’t run out of things to say for a while.

Oh… And I’m gonna do this one in order.  But I can’t guarantee I’ll do it in thirty days.

(Also… I’m trying to talk M into doing this, as well.  If you’re interested in hearing His answers, do me a favor and sound off here.  Maybe He’ll be more inclined to give it a shot if He knows it’ll be well received!)

Anywho… Thirty Days of Kink:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

Check it out! Other people are doing it, too!

I’m a trendsetter! Hee!

Seriously, though, people are joining in the kinky fun.  Here are some who defined their kinky selves for me.  I know! It’s so cool that people are willing to write for me.

And here are some other folks who’re working on this writing project on their own site.  Be sure to check them out.  (If you’re working on this project, and I just haven’t seen it yet, drop me a line, and I’ll add you to the list.)

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  1. September 9th, 2010 at 21:44 | #1

    Hi I just started working on this here is the short link to the first post http://wp.me/pQ6md-2a

  2. September 13th, 2010 at 20:35 | #2

    @Kathryn Added. :) Thanks.

  3. September 16th, 2010 at 02:23 | #3

    Also the wonderful Gabe & Elizabeth over at Pornocracy just started too!
    http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=764
    Scarlet Lotus´s last [type] ..Spiral Stair Corset 2 WW

  4. September 16th, 2010 at 16:17 | #4

    @Scarlet Lotus Thanks for letting me know! I’ll get them added to the list. :)

  5. September 23rd, 2010 at 06:28 | #5

    Thanks for adding me to the list!!

  6. October 26th, 2010 at 01:58 | #6

    I’m going to start it tomorrow :)
    His mija´s last [type] ..Newest Addictions

  7. October 27th, 2010 at 02:43 | #7

    Thanks for adding me!

  8. October 27th, 2010 at 12:15 | #8

    Thank You for adding me.

  9. October 28th, 2010 at 12:29 | #9

    I’ve been working on this series as well, and I would greatly appreciate being added to the list.

    http://girldeviante.blogspot.com/

  10. November 2nd, 2010 at 16:44 | #10

    I just started this on my own blog, I loved the idea and decided to go for it myself!

    http://rosesthornesco.blogspot.com/

  11. November 3rd, 2010 at 16:22 | #11

    @K Adding you to the list now. :)

    @Rose For some reason you’re getting caught by Akismet as spam. I deleted your second comment. Adding you to the list now. :)

    @Everyone – Thanks for participating!

  12. November 7th, 2010 at 03:12 | #12

    @Rayne – How weird!

  13. November 7th, 2010 at 14:10 | #13

    How did I miss this when it was originally posted, and then the subsequent postings? Obviously I am sorely behind in my blog reading. Anyway, thank goodness for the many avenues of communication that is the net, and that I saw your post on Fet, right?

    I am working on a way to incorporate this into my blog as well. What a great meme!

    Jade
    Jade´s last [type] ..Creepy or Romantic-Sexy

  14. December 1st, 2010 at 10:44 | #14

    Hey, GREAT list!! I just wanted to chime in that I’m joining in on the kinky fun too!! Started day 1 today in fact… :)

  15. December 13th, 2010 at 18:21 | #15

    @Jade @Evey Y’all are up! Thanks for participating. :)

  16. January 3rd, 2011 at 23:23 | #16

    This project was just the thing to inspire me to explore my kink and write about it! Thanks!

    http://switchbackgirl.blogspot.com/2011/01/30-days-of-kink.html

  17. January 11th, 2011 at 13:30 | #17

    I’ve started this project also, it’s going to be an interesting and eventful 30 days of blogging. I’ve given credit where credit is due.

    =^_~=

  18. January 11th, 2011 at 13:31 | #18

    *faceplant*

    Helps if I put a link eh? *blush*

    http://www.kari-rose.com/2011/01/11/30-days-of-kink/

  19. January 11th, 2011 at 14:18 | #19

    @Kari Rose Lol. It totally does. Thanks… adding you now. :)

    @Janey Arson Awesome! I’m adding you to the list.

  20. January 15th, 2011 at 07:37 | #20

    I appreciate you linking my blog, and I amended my first post for the Thirty Days of Kink I’ve been doing, to link back to you :) Cheers,

    Fay

  21. January 15th, 2011 at 16:33 | #21

    @Faydreh Oh, hey, thanks! You didn’t have to do that. I really appreciate it. :)

  22. March 14th, 2011 at 19:23 | #22

    I added all the days to a seperate page for easy viewing: http://redheaded-slut.blogspot.com/p/30-days-of-kink.html

  23. March 15th, 2011 at 06:24 | #23

    Hi Rayne

    I have finally got round to starting this project.

    You can find my 1st post here http://mollysdailykiss.com/2011/03/15/define-your-kinky-self/

    and I have also created a new page for this project with a link back to its creator….You! LOL

    http://mollysdailykiss.com/the-30-days-of-kink/

    Mollyxxx

  24. March 17th, 2011 at 17:29 | #24

    Sounds interesting! Count me in as well! I’ll squeeze them in with my daily posts!! Cheers for this xx
    Sephani Paige´s last [type] ..Bad Habits

  25. March 24th, 2011 at 00:11 | #25

    I completed my Thirty Days of Kink posts ^_^

  26. March 27th, 2011 at 12:36 | #26

    I started it a few days ago. On Day 6 now.

  27. April 3rd, 2011 at 23:09 | #27

    I’m doing the 30 Days in my own blog. I just finished Day 3. ^_^

  28. April 4th, 2011 at 20:57 | #28
  29. April 18th, 2011 at 13:56 | #29

    Starting my own 30 Days of Kink today!
    princessstarberry.dreamwidth.org

  30. May 8th, 2011 at 02:55 | #30

    Great read. I’m doing the 30 days thing too on a similar blog.

  31. May 31st, 2011 at 22:12 | #31

    I love this. I’ve been waiting to contribute. I have mine over at my blog

    http://www.mundanetoms.blogspot.com

    Check it out!

  32. June 1st, 2011 at 07:31 | #32

    Im a little late but I’m starting this too http://complaisantone.wordpress.com/30-days-of-kink/ !

    What a great series!

  33. June 3rd, 2011 at 22:53 | #33

    Hey, I started mine way back in March, but sort of it let it drift. http://citygalatea.wordpress.com/category/30-days-of-kink/

  34. June 7th, 2011 at 08:23 | #34

    @Sestra, @Rain, @Mistress L, @Emma Rose, @Starberry, @Samantha, @Joy, @Faydreh, @Sephani Paige, @ Molly, @The Redheaded Slut I’ll get you guys added to the list just as soon as I have a free moment, if you’re not already. :)

  35. June 18th, 2011 at 00:40 | #35

    Thanks Rayne, much appreciated. I’m having a blast doing it!

  36. July 15th, 2011 at 21:42 | #36

    Nice, didn’t know you had your own site and the eden blog til just now. You must be a very busy woman. Lol

    If it pleases you to do so, would you please add me to your list? :) I’ve done about 5 and I’m trying to push myself to write more. Thanks for this awesomesauce list Rayne!! :)

  37. July 26th, 2011 at 13:52 | #38
  38. August 31st, 2011 at 13:17 | #39

    Hi! I don’t know if this is still being updated, but i wanted to mention that i’m also completing the challenge. (: Already up to day 7!

    http://dulcib.blogspot.com/2011/08/30-days-of-kink.html

  39. May 2nd, 2012 at 08:22 | #40

    Just wanted to post my 20 Days of Kink blog posting link. Thanks for the idea!

  40. May 3rd, 2012 at 22:16 | #41

    I just started working on this yesterday: http://absinthecocktail.blogspot.com

    Thank you for putting this together–it’s really helping me get back into blogging after taking a break!

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