There’s been a change: I won’t be writing this in sequential order after all.  What? I tried! But I had an awesome idea! I’m sharing this series with Eden Cafe.  I’ll link to them all here, and of course they’ll be listed in my monthly round up.  So keep your eyes peeled!

Just because I can’t have a Tumblr doesn’t mean I can’t look at Tumblr.  I don’t think.  He didn’t say it did, anyway.

So, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I’m forty-one pages in, and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink.  I know, I know.  Not even finished one series, and already starting another.  Ah well.  It’ll keep me from getting bored and increase the chances of me actually finishing them.  At least I won’t run out of things to say for a while.

Oh… And I’m gonna do this one in order.  But I can’t guarantee I’ll do it in thirty days.

(Also… I’m trying to talk M into doing this, as well.  If you’re interested in hearing His answers, do me a favor and sound off here.  Maybe He’ll be more inclined to give it a shot if He knows it’ll be well received!)

Anywho… Thirty Days of Kink:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

Check it out! Other people are doing it, too!

I’m a trendsetter! Hee!

Seriously, though, people are joining in the kinky fun.  Here are some who defined their kinky selves for me.  I know! It’s so cool that people are willing to write for me.

• Britni, from OMG, That Britni’s Shameless, defines her kinky self.
• TitsMcScandal, from The Blogging Slave, defines her kinky self.
• Mistress Kay, from Kinky World, defines her kinky self.
• Our very own Dweaver defines his kinky self.
• 3, from FetLife, defines her kinky self.
• Rockin’, from Light  Switch, defines her kinky self.
• Perverted Imp, from PervertedImp.com, defines her kinky self.

And here are some other folks who’re working on this writing project on their own site.  Be sure to check them out.  (If you’re working on this project, and I just haven’t seen it yet, drop me a line, and I’ll add you to the list.)

• Cinnamon at Seeing My Own Reflection
• ScarletLotus at Purveyor of Pleasure
• Lady Dreyanan at Mistress Says
• Gabe and Elizabeth at Pornocracy
• Alan and Michelle at He Says, She Says
• Nimue at Nimues World
• She at She’s That Kind of Girl
• Masterofslavej at Roles Defining Rules
• K at Deviante
• Rose at The Rose Garden
• Jade at Pieces of Jade
• Evey at Voyeur on Display
• Imp at PervertedImp.com
• Janey Arson at Switchback Girl
• Kari Rose at Kari-Rose.com
• Faydreh at Fay’s Blog
• The Redhead at The Redheaded Slut
• Princess L at Not the Whip
• Molly at Molly’s Daily Kiss
• Joy at A Joy Forever
• Samantha at Drowsy ramblings of a sleepy kitten
• princessstarberry at Submit and Knit (I think? If your blog has another title let me know and I’ll change it!)
• Mistress L at Complaisant Blog
• Rain at Girl in Progress
• K&K at Kisses and Kinks
• sugarcunt at Sugarcunt Writes
• dulcibelle at Bottoms Up
• Sir at The Art of Lovemaking