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Product Review: Rabbit Habit by Vibratex

July 23rd, 2010 Comments off

Ooo, what’s that?

Oprah Magazine calls the Rabbit Habit by Vibratex “The Rolls Royce of Sex Toys”, and I call whoever said that a “Sex Toy n00b”.  Keep reading to see why.

What’d it come in?

Rabbit Habit comes in a clear plastic box with copper flower outlines.  Tucked in the bottom is a red cardboard insert that sports all the Rabbit Habit’s claims to fame, and directions on the inside of the toy.

How’s it made?

This dual stimulator is made of jelly-like purple vinyl, with an off-white plastic handle/battery compartment.  It’s nine and a half inches, all told, with about five insertable inches.  It’s got a diameter of just under an inch and a half at its widest point, and it’s squishy enough that I think it would be comfortable for just about any user.  Even those who usually enjoy thinner vibes.  Read more…

SJP#386 – Broken Toys

July 22nd, 2010 Comments off

How do you feel about the idea of ‘breaking a slave’?

Scared.  Intrigued.  Excited.  Worried.  Confused.

I never really know for sure what “breaking” entails.  I don’t even really understand what the end game would be.

M talks about breaking me often.  And I can never really decide whether I want Him to or not.  Or what that even means.

Will I still be me? Will I be someone else? I mean, as far as my personality goes.  And why would He want that? I mean, didn’t He like who I was when He met me? Isn’t that the reason He married me? Or was it always with the image of who He could make me in mind? And what does that mean for our relationship? Read more…

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A Hood, a Paddle, and a Determined Master

July 21st, 2010 3 comments

“Answer me the way you’re supposed to.  With Master in there somewhere, and loud enough for me to hear you.  Do you understand me, cunt?”

“Get the dishes done.  I’m cooking dinner.”

“I want the Under the Bed Restraint System… under the bed.”

“Get the cuffs on so we can adjust it.”

“I’ll be paddling you with the new frat paddle from Maui Kink tonight.”

“I’m going to hurt you.  I’m not going to stop because you want me to.”

“@insatiabldesire will be gagged and likely strapped down.  Should be fun (for me, hah)”

“You’re not going to like it.  It’s going to be too much.”

“Find the zipper hood and the gag, and lay down on the bed.”

Only…  Read more…

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I need to cry.

July 20th, 2010 Comments off

I need to cry.

Not because I’m frustrated, or angry, or hurt, or sad, or scared.  I mean, I’m sure those things will have their place when the torrent finally comes.  But that’s not the kind of cry I’m talking about.

I need to scream.

I need to beg.

Even during that scene I’m always talking about where I felt like I had just dropped three hits of ecstasy when M was finished, I managed to keep from begging.  But that might have been the whole being gagged thing.

I won’t admit to it.  Won’t ask for it.  Read more…

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Do you have to go public to be a kinkster?

July 19th, 2010 1 comment
Hot and kinky

by Rachel Kramer Bussel

(Fair warning: At some point during the night, I began writing this post in my head, and I had a distinct direction for it.  This morning, my direction’s a little fuzzy.  So please excuse the rambliness.  Also, before it gets twisted, this is not meant to be aimed at my friend.  I’m discussing her opinion because it’s one held by many, not just her.)

I used to have this friend who was pretty active in her local community.  So much so that when there were demos, she would often be asked to be the guinea pig.  And because she was an exhibitionist and an attention whore, she’d always say yes, regardless of how she felt about the person running the demo.  It always made me chuckle when she came back from the event singing the person’s praises, even though she’d been ripping them to shreds in my IM box just hours before.

And not just their praises.  But her own praises as well.  Read more…

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Sex and Kink

July 19th, 2010 1 comment

Dweaver999 talks about the correlation between sex and kink.

A question that I’ve seen come up on blogs and forums before is just what is the relationship, if any, between sex and kink.  This question is of particular interest to me for reasons I’ll try to make clear.  To help show what I mean, I need to explain my personal history with kink, or BDSM.

The first time I encountered BDSM was in a true crime magazine.  I was 13 and delivering newspapers.  My route took me by the local newsstand and they had these magazines with scantily clad women on the front and blaring headlines about kidnappings, rapes and other crimes against women.  I found them fascinating, but you could hardly call it sexually arousing for me.

However, I shortly thereafter, had my first masturbation experience.  Needless to say, I masturbated a lot after that, though, there weren’t any fantasies involved.  At that age, a boy needs nothing, mentally to become aroused and reach orgasm.  It just took some stroking of the old cock, and wham, I was cumming.  Read more…

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