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30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by Masterofslavej

November 1st, 2010 Leave a comment Go to comments

Rayne’s asked a few of the bloggers around the web participating in the writing project Thirty Days of Kink for permission to repost their response to the question listed on Day 1.  Here’s Masterofslavej from Roles Defining Rules. Go here for his original post: Insatiable Desire’s Thirty Days of Kink.

From Masterofslavej’s bio: I am a pretty normal guy, all things considered. I am married and have a new born son, our first. My wife has been my collared slave for nearly ten years now and we were active within the Colorado scene for a number of years before a move to a small town kept us away from the happening places. Now, we are opening ourselves to the community at large for the first time in years.

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

My kinky self? I am a dominant man. A sadistic, controlling, cruel man. Or at least I like to think so. I am interested in many aspects of BDSM, the fetishes, the control, ownership of a sex slave, the dehumanizing and humiliation that comes with owning a slave. I live a 24/7 O/p lifestyle with my girl jenpet, who has been my collared slave for over ten years now. We’ve spent the entirety of our adult lives invested in our lifestyle and there have been many changes and challenges along the way. 

In our lives, I possess her utterly and relish the control I have over her life and body. I am bit of a micro-manager, controlling her privileges and setting her boundaries. My view of her slides between a kept slave and a house pet. I like to make her work, performing labor and house hold chores (albeit when we have the time, damn busy schedules) while other times I like to let her curl up on the couch and lay her head in my lap.

Our lives underwent an immense change with the birth of our child. Gone were the days of my naked slave wearing only a collar and a smile, curled up on the floor or doing chores (a bit of self delusion there but I’m sticking with it). Though our wild nights and play opportunities have dried up significantly, a situation we are both suffering through, it has provided something unexpected and wonderful. Subtlety. I feel that our relationship has become deeper and more ingrained in every aspect of our lives as a result. Something that I’m sure will benefit us greatly when the river of opportunities for play starts flowing again.

We are kinky bloggers, and share our unique perspectives through our blog. We are also FetLife members and through that we are able to maintain some level of contact with the BDSM community. I enjoy sharing my life and my views with like minded kinksters.

I love my lifestyle and my slave and I could not imagine living life any other way.

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