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30 Days of Kink: First Kinky Experience

December 6th, 2010 Leave a comment Go to comments

30 Days of KinkFor the rest of this series, and links to others who have participated, click here.

Full prompt: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

I don’t really remember my first (or second, or third) kinky experience, which is probably good, since it was sort of forced on me by my ex long before I ever had a name for this thing we do.  I hear forced (or coerced) kink can occasionally turn people off to the whole thing, and I’m really glad it didn’t have that affect on me.

I’ve probably written about my first kinky experience with M before, and I really don’t have a whole lot to say about it except it was hot, and it was painful, and my enjoyment far outweighed my regret for having done something to deserve being spanked.  And it was more than apparent that I was too much of a masochist to be spanked with a belt as punishment.  The tears streaking down my cheeks were chased away by embarrassed giggles and wet thighs.  And the spanking was followed with a blow job.  I think.  Maybe a bit of vaginal penetration, too.  That was eight years ago, man!

There’s something about the first experience, though, that sets the whole tone for the rest of your kinky career.  For example, M held back, but only barely.  There was no warm-up, since it was supposed to be punishment.  He just came out of the gate swinging, and I counted to fifteen, or fifty, or whatever it was, and when He was done, He was all “You need to suck my cock, now.  I’d fuck you, but that was supposed to be punishment.  Maybe next time, I can beat you for fun.” So maybe there wasn’t vaginal penetration, after all. Hmm…

  1. Jacob Marley
    May 29th, 2012 at 00:34 | #1

    I continually looking for a female spanking partner and constantly finding myself ending the relationships nearly as soon as they start because the woman who wants spanked confesses she has some really strange personal issues of some sort. Two years ago I started spanking a 37 year old woman and after 6 or 7 session she told me her husband was a highway patrol officer and he didn’t like her seeing me. Shortly after separating from this woman, I started spanking a pretty, young woman and things seemed OK until I arrived early to a session and found her in her car drinking rock-gut straight from the bottle. She confessed she was a raging alcoholic and had to get soused before she walked into to meet with me. The next lady could not stop crying from the time she arrived to the time she left. That was depressing and most recently a young woman wanted me to spank her to cure her of her internet porn addiction.

    Serious, where can I meet a semi-normal sub?

  2. August 23rd, 2013 at 23:17 | #2

    Oh man I remember mine so vividly. Looking back it was extremely uneducated and unsafe, but I still treasure the memory. I’m not sure what drove him to do it, but my current partner put his hands around my throat during a session. It was light, and nothing frightening. I let out a totally involuntary moan and surprised myself with how much I enjoyed it. His hands tightened ever so slightly, and I enjoyed every second. To this day, it’s still one of my favorite things.

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