How do you address others in the lifestyle? Do you automatically give strangers respect, or give automatic courtesy and wait for the individual to earn personal respect?
My owner is of the belief that a submissive, and especially a slave, should be respectful to men and women calling themselves dominant.
I mean, He prefers that I be polite to everyone we come across. But I am especially required to be polite to dominant people. And He’ll not be particularly upset if I wind up in a bitching match with some submissive, so long as I didn’t start it. Read more…
If the government brought back real and legal slavery, would you sign yourself over to your Owner as his/her slave?
I mean, how could I not?
There’s tons to consider. For example, what exactly would be included in this law?
Would my owner be allowed, by this law, to do whatever He wishes with me? Or would there be restrictions?
Regardless, M’s already got complete control over me. So really, what difference does it make? All it would really be doing is making what we do already legal. Keeping Him out of jail.
So, yes! A thousand times, yes!
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Do you ever get ‘down time’ or some time where you can choose how to relax? If so, what is your favorite way to spend it?
I get down time. Quite frequently. Though I wouldn’t exactly call it down time. And because I’m always waiting for M to have something for me to do, I very rarely take advantage of it like I should. I mean, what’s the point in getting engrossed in something, only to have Him break my concentration every so often?
But, like I said, I wouldn’t exactly call it “down time”. Read more…
How do you feel about the idea of ‘breaking a slave’?
Scared. Intrigued. Excited. Worried. Confused.
I never really know for sure what “breaking” entails. I don’t even really understand what the end game would be.
M talks about breaking me often. And I can never really decide whether I want Him to or not. Or what that even means.
Will I still be me? Will I be someone else? I mean, as far as my personality goes. And why would He want that? I mean, didn’t He like who I was when He met me? Isn’t that the reason He married me? Or was it always with the image of who He could make me in mind? And what does that mean for our relationship? Read more…
“And he said, ‘Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.’” – Kahlil Gibran
The downfall to any serious training always seems to be pain. Strength training, military training, religious training… Slave training is no different.
All sorts of pain is involved in slave training. At least in Master’s training of me.
There’s the physical… Being hurt for His pleasure, my pleasure, discipline and punishment. Being restrained in uncomfortable positions. Being made to stand, sit or kneel in uncomfortable positions for extended periods of time. Read more…
Does your owner allow and encourage you to pursue your own dreams/goals?
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The honest answer is “sometimes”. It depends on whether or not said dream or goal interferes with His wants/needs/ideas of how our relationship should look.
Slavery-oriented or life-changing dreams and/or goals have to be approved by Him. And usually, if I can pursue them without affecting my relationship/life with Him in any way, He’s more than willing to allow it.
He spurs me on with pursuing my writing. I think it actually disappoints Him more than me that I’ve mostly stopped writing fiction and erotica. I’m kicking myself for it, too. I’m not as bad of a writer as I’d convinced myself I was. Read more…